If you blocked any of my social media accounts, made a point not to make eye contact with me, avoided inviting or informing me about community events, shut or hip checked me at your front door, pretended you didnt see the cis guys playing musical chairs on the trolley, asked bizarre or invasive out-of-context personal questions fishing for info while hiding your purpose, generally shut me out and were evasive or deceptive when I asked why …
Don’t add me here or anywhere else.
You are part of a torture machine that kills in a particularly vicious way.
If you consider yourself my friend and neither asked me what was going on or shared the information I needed to make good choices and keep myself safe, I’d prefer if you contacted me directly and let me know why. Otherwise re-evaluate your definition of friend and ally (and maybe consent and feminism). I don’t trust you.
